Ender Wiggin The last few years I have been doing intensive group therapy and so I have heard dozens of stories of peoples intimate lives. I have homosexual friends who I love very much and I believe love is love and hope that they never lose their loving relationships. Its been a shock to me frankly because most homosexual men I know had early experiences in which they were molested by men. All the homosexual men I am very close to have trauma backgrounds so I am not sure if the sample is skewed since others not in therapy may be homosexual without suffering such trauma. I do know that my early experiences screwed up who I am attracted to, in fact I am only attracted to unavailable people which speaks to my fear. I have more questions than I have answers but I have seen for myself that programming can change, not sure at all about homosexuality or pedophilia perhaps but other stuff such as attraction to unavailable people, and yes I have seen people move away from being attracted to kinky sex. I am afraid because of the possible repercussions to those whose who are gay from homophobic people this topic doesn’t get discussed honestly enough. Here’s an honest article about it
