Not everyone can feel empathy and not everyone can feel pain. Sometimes people can’t feel because if they identify with the pain of others then they might have to process their own.

The system is stacked against victims when it comes to rape and assault. We always hear things like, she didn’t report it, she is lying blah blah.

They want to minimize it and they don‘t want understand why she may stay quiet about it because they don’t want to take in her pain