Thanks so much Jan Horwood I have two boys two and I can relate to your being aware of the messages they are getting. I do worry because the state of male sexuality and emotional relationships are so unhealthy in our culture.

Like you I have suffered serious consequences as a woman and I know how hard it is to get over rape and sexual assault, the cost to me personally has been very steep.

Yes I would never give anyone a free pass for such a horrific crime but I also know that the culture and society enables all this dysfunction that causes so much pain all around.